How Are You, REALLY?

How Are You, REALLY?

How are you really doing these days? I don’t mean the automatic “I’m fine” we throw around without thinking. I mean it—take a moment to pause, breathe, and check in with yourself. How are you?


If you’re anything like the entrepreneurs, creators, and dreamers I work with, you’re probably juggling a lot. Deadlines, responsibilities, and endless notifications fill your days. And while you’re striving to achieve your goals, somewhere deep down, there’s a whisper that something feels...off. Maybe it’s stress creeping in. Maybe burnout is just around the corner. Or maybe it’s just that nagging feeling that life is racing past, and you’re losing touch with what really matters.


If this resonates, let me tell you something important. You don’t have to stay stuck in this cycle. You have the power to reset, reconnect, and step into a version of yourself that feels more alive, more balanced, and more aligned. Let’s talk about how.

The Modern Struggle: Stress, Burnout, and ADT

Life today feels like a sprint—only the finish line keeps moving. The pressure to stay “on” 24/7, the constant buzz of notifications, and the endless to-do lists are enough to leave anyone overwhelmed. And it’s not just you.


There’s even a term for what many of us are experiencing: Attention Deficit Trait (ADT). It’s not a medical condition but a product of the overstimulated, always-connected lives we lead. ADT is when your brain struggles to stay focused because it’s constantly bombarded by distractions.


Multitasking, endless scrolling, and the demands of modern life have rewired our brains, making it harder to concentrate, think deeply, and stay present.


Here’s a sobering stat: the average attention span has dropped to just 8 seconds. That’s shorter than a goldfish’s! And studies show we’re spending over three hours a day glued to our phones. This constant mental overstimulation doesn’t just hurt productivity—it disconnects you from your true self, keeps you stuck in old patterns of thought, and locks you into autopilot.


What If You Could Take Back Control?

What if I told you that you could break free from this cycle? That you could lower your stress levels, avoid burnout, and reconnect with the most powerful version of yourself—the one you’ve always known is in there?


The good news is, you can. You don’t have to wait for life to slow down (spoiler: it won’t). Instead, you can learn how to pause, reset, and start living from a place of clarity, balance, and flow.


The tools to do this aren’t new or complicated. They’re ancient, proven practices rooted in Daoism, and they’ve helped countless people—myself included—transform their lives. Practices like breathwork, meditation, and Qigong aren’t just “nice-to-haves.” They’re essential tools for anyone who wants to thrive in today’s chaotic world.

The Daoist Approach: A Blueprint for Balance

Daoism teaches us a simple yet profound truth: balance is everything. It’s about aligning with the natural flow of life, balancing yin and yang, and creating harmony between rest and action, body and spirit.

When you’re constantly hustling, pushing, and doing (yang), stress builds up. And when you forget to recharge, reflect, and restore (yin), burnout follows. Daoist practices show us how to balance these forces, so we can not only avoid burnout but also experience life more fully.

How Breathwork, Meditation, and Qigong Can Help

Here’s where the magic happens. These practices aren’t just tools—they’re doorways to a calmer, more connected, and more inspired version of you.

Breathwork

Breathwork is about more than just taking deep breaths. It’s a way to reset your nervous system, calm your mind, and create space between your thoughts. When you breathe consciously, you’re not just getting more oxygen—you’re breaking free from old mental loops.


Those loops—the overthinking, the doubt, the fear—are often rooted in past experiences and outdated patterns of thought. Breathwork helps you step out of those patterns and into a state of clarity and possibility. In just a few minutes of focused breathing, you can lower stress, boost your energy, and reconnect with your beginner’s mind—that state of curiosity and openness we all had as children.

Meditation

Meditation is your reset button. It clears the mental clutter and helps you step back from the noise of daily life. But it’s more than just a mental practice. Meditation reconnects you to your true self—the part of you that knows who you are and what you want, even when life feels overwhelming.


Through meditation, you can break the autopilot and consciously choose how you want to think, feel, and live. It’s a way to align with your deeper purpose and show up for life with more presence and intention.

Qigong

Qigong is like moving meditation. Through gentle, flowing movements, it helps you align your body, mind, and energy. Qigong isn’t just about physical health—it’s about cultivating inner calm, restoring vitality, and creating a sense of balance that carries into everything you do.

Becoming the Driver of Your Life

Right now, life might feel like a car spinning out of control on a busy highway. But here’s the thing: you can take the wheel.

Breathwork, meditation, and Qigong are like your GPS, guiding you back to balance and clarity. They don’t make stress disappear—but they transform it. Stress becomes a signal to realign, an opportunity to grow, and a chance to live more intentionally.

When you integrate these practices, something shifts. You’re no longer reacting to life—you’re creating it.

Why This Matters Now

The world isn’t slowing down. AI, constant notifications, and endless demands mean the pace of life is only accelerating. The real challenge isn’t keeping up—it’s staying grounded and connected to what truly matters: your health, your relationships, and your purpose.

You can’t control the chaos out there, but you can control how you respond to it. And when you master your inner world, everything changes.

Practical Tips to Start Today

Start small. You don’t need hours to make a difference.

  • Begin your day with 5 minutes of conscious breathing. Feel the air fill your lungs and remind yourself that you’re alive.
  • Take a Qigong break during the workday to recharge your energy and focus.
  • Before bed, spend 10 minutes in meditation to clear your mind and let go of the day’s stress.

These small steps create a ripple effect, transforming not just your days but your entire life.

An Inspirational Takeaway

Your attention is your most valuable resource. Don’t let the world hijack it. Reclaim it. Direct it. Use it to create a life that feels truly yours.

When you align your body, mind, and spirit, you don’t just survive—you thrive. And that’s the Dao.

Ready to Begin?

If this resonates, take the next step. Join my upcoming workshop or try my free guided breathwork session. Let’s start this journey together—back to balance, clarity, and your true self.

Mathias

Healers, TCM Expert, Qigong Teacher, Breathwork and LifeCoaches. In my whole life, I have been looking for the deep meaning of life and how to experience the True Self in life.

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